There are no coincidences
I began to practice African Spiritualistic rituals, and from the moment I made the decision to do so I began to receive spiritual messages and insights from the ancestors and the Creator. I was astounded, and the more I stopped trying to intellectually explain my experiences and just go with the flow and experience it, the more they came – daily.
Be the candle
The answer from the All via the ancestors was be like the candle i.e. just be. The candle doesn’t care whether it is good or bad, negative or positive it creates light regardless. It manifests its power regardless of perception.